the power of love..

Few days ago, I went my uncle’s house to visit my grandpa. My grandpa is aged 70 above, maybe just recover from sickness, he is very skinny and become older and weaker compare with last time I met him. Now, he can’t stand up or sit by himself anymore, every of his movement need help from others. He is use pamper like a baby now, everyday my uncle help him clean the body.
At this moment, I just remember that I had received an email from my friend about parent and kids. Inside the email stated when we was a baby, parent take care everything of kid. Parent wears the baby clothes, feed them milk, and teach them how to speak out the first word (mama or papa), how to walk and fastening their shoe string, how to comb their hair… After day by day, kids are grown up and parent get older. Their position is change and become opposite, parent just like go back to zero. They become blur and need help from other to do the daily activities. Sometime, they can’t hear what their children talk, they can’t see the thing clearly, they can’t walk fast, and they start crapping.. All of that may annoying but do you ever think, what your parent feel when you were a kid? They never blame and give up doing the best for you.
Beside the relationship between parent and kids, relationship between husband and wife also very touching if they love each other same like the starting. As I remember, grandma always blame grandpa because his unfaithfulness when grandpa was young. Grandpa and grandma always argue and never tolerance. But, this time is different, I saw grandma is very care grandpa. She tried to comfort grandpa to make him less worries about my youngest uncle.
Aren’t people will change their point of view when they are getting older? They will try to accept the imperfect of their partner which they refused in the past. Maybe I should think it in this way, when one is really love their partner, one will accept all the imperfect of their partner no matter what aged or what type of relationship.
For example, a girl is refused with the guy who has habit of smoke. But, she may slowly accept that habit after that guy became her boyfriend. Of course, sure the girl will complain the guy don’t ever smoke again. If the guy can’t take over his bad habit, the only way to meet the solution is girl has to accept it. This is very common happen between couples. If you can’t change it then you have to accept it to reach the peaceful, no matter what kind of problem. How acceptable of the case is depending on how one love their partner. If you love your partner more than your partner love you then automatic you will accept the worse that others think impossible to accept. You will get an excuse to persuade yourself to forgive your partner, even you know it is unforgiveness. So, I think that is true, THE POWER OF A RELATIONSHIP IS LIES WITH WHOEVER CARES LESS.